Tag: love and relationships

As a Healer, Psychic Medium, and Spiritual Minister, it isn’t uncommon to be contacted on a daily basis by those who are looking for some spiritual guidance in their lives. Those of us in the Holistic Profession have answered our Soul’s Call to share Divine Love and Light with those who come to us seeking advice and guidance.

Every once in awhile, there will be a challenging experience with someone seeking insight. This actually happens more during radio shows with callers than clients that have a session with me. I don’t mind these occasional challenges for I know that there is always a lesson being learned for all those involved. Let me rephrase that… there is an opportunity to learn a lesson in challenges. If someone reacts to a situation in a defensive manner, the object of the lesson is not recognized or even embraced as an opportunity for spiritual growth and development.

How does one grow spiritually? Simply by Knowing Thyself. That isn’t as simple as it seems, is it? Do you know yourself completely? Do you know your dark side AND your light side? Do you consider each of these degrees of yourself as good or bad? Or good AND bad? As a whole, complete Divine Being it is important to understand all of the degrees and polarities of ourselves.

Love, the right job and money are the top three categories that people want insight on. Recently on a radio show, a caller wanted to know when she was going to meet the right man. She does date and try to meet the ‘right one’ but hasn’t had any success. She was asked, “Why do you feel that you haven’t had success in meeting the right man?” Her reply was that all the men in her area are jerks and are looking only for a one night stand, not a relationship. Ok, sure, all of us have felt that way at one time or another. So, another question, “Why are you attracting men like that?”  Well that caused an explosion of reasons and non-stop excuses. The caller was upset that she keeps getting the advice from other healers, psychics and spiritual counselors to work on herself internally first, in order to meet the right partner. The issue can’t be because of her, she hasn’t done anything wrong.

Raise your hand if you can relate to this woman. I most certainly do as well. I was unhappy in my relationships too, and this was in all relationships, not just with a partner. It is so much easier to blame everyone else for our unhappiness. Been there, done that. Sure, you can have friends around you but do they feel the same way you do? If we blame others, we attract people in our lives that do the same thing. Like attracts Like. How we are inside, internally is what we attract outside of us, externally.

The biggest lies ever told…are the lies we tell ourselves… we are ok and fine, when the truth is that we are not ok deep inside and need to work on our internal happiness before we can see it manifest outside of ourselves.

Life isn’t all about sunshine and roses. There is rain and roses have thorns. Opposites? No! These are aspects or different degrees of Oneness. Once we create Balance within ourselves, we attract others that are continuous working on their Balance as well. Healing and Balancing is ongoing in our lives as we expand into Higher Vibrations and Dimensions.

Years ago, I wrote an article, ‘The Most Important Relationship” for the Door Opener Magazine. You can find this article on the Media page of my website.  http://www.whitesagewoman.com/Media.html

So, now, I ask you…. Who holds the Keys to your Happiness?

~ Rev. Tiffany White Sage Woman

1 April 2016