“What is the return of Saturn? What lessons does it teach us?” This was recently asked by a good friend of mine.
The Saturn Return is when the planet Saturn comes back to meet your natal Saturn. It takes about 29.5 years for this slow-mover to return to where it was when you were born. The Saturn return hits in the age of the late twenties and its impact is felt into the early thirties. There’s a second (and possibly a third for the long-lived among us) Saturn return that hits between age 57-60.
The Saturn Return is a wake-up call, and this is why so many fear it’s sobering realities. If you’ve spent your twenties in a fog, coasting on your youthful charm, it becomes obvious that your foundation is too flimsy for the long haul. When you’re young, there seems infinite time to decide what you want to be “when you grow up.” Well, Father Time swoops down as you’re nearing 30 to say, you’re all grown up now, pick a path.
Sometimes we make life choices before we really know who we are. At the Saturn return, some of these choices are revealed to be out of sync with our true destiny. And it’s a big deal, since there may be marriages and whole careers up for review. The U.S. Census reports a peak of divorces around age 30 when promises made in the blush of youth don’t match the core of either person as they approach this turning point. On the other hand, Saturn may bring a destined relationship, that leads to a serious commitment with long-term potential.
Interestingly I told both my sons or rather suggested to them that they don’t get married until they are in their thirties. Unless of course, a destined relationship makes itself known before then. They both are in their late twenties now, with my eldest son approaching his first Saturn Return this Fall. They are dating, but not married yet. Hey … they actually listened! Hahaha
The Saturn Return brings with it the pressure of time, and often the first awareness of your own mortality. You take stock of what it would take to achieve those big dreams, and often a sense of dread at ever getting there. But happily, it’s a time when things like discipline, focus, and clear-sight come in to give you a kind of pragmatic hope. You’ll figure out what’s still possible, and make the changes necessary to get on track. It’s a crossroads period when life-altering decisions are made. For example, at age 30, Vincent Van Gogh became a painter, instead of a minister.
The Saturn return often creates a crisis that puts you face-to-face with your fears. And many of these have deep roots in your psyche, but they’re also about living up to societal expectations. Saturn causes a mini earthquake to the foundations, and this enables you to shake off what’s not really You.
Saturn’s other alias is Lord of Karma, and here’s the test of whether you can become your own authority. Can you discover an unshakable core self within you that will be the basis for a lifetime of growth?
Saturn has been known as the Great Malefic, whose transits are met with dread. But Saturn is simply the instigator of change, all meant to lead you toward healing and a real foundation of self. If you’re in your Saturn Return, and finding it hard to cope, get used to letting go of what’s not working. When you hold on to things that Saturn is trying to break up, that’s when suffering can occur. Let’s make the choice to let go of what no longer is for our Highest and Greatest.
The Saturn return makes it clear what you’ve been up to for the last 29 or so years. Some “old souls” that made wise choices from the get-go may find it to be a passage where things are solidified. Not all marriages fall apart, and some grow stronger when they make it through this maturation phase together.
If you resist the changes that Saturn brings, there’s always the second go-round. But that isn’t advised since it might be a farther fall to the bottom. The example of a Saturn resister would be someone devoted to a job that makes them miserable or stuck in a relationship that’s harmful to their spirit. Just like the I-Ching says, chaos is another name for opportunity. And listening to the pressures and doubts of your Saturn return brings on the breakdown before the breakthrough. Saturn is trying to lead you to yourself.
As Lord of Karma, Saturn brings you what you’ve earned through your disciplined pursuit of goals and experience. You’ll find out during the Saturn return what you’ve manifested up to that point, how well you’ve used your talents.
Saturn’s realm is responsibility and will show you how to grow through relationships, raising children, pursuing a challenging career, finding discipline for an art, etc. If you’ve indulged in wishful thinking, Saturn finds a way to make this painfully obvious. It’s not just designed to humiliate you, but to inspire you to stand on solid ground.
Saturn is like the wise old man who sees right through your excuses, and empty boasts. Try to make friends with Saturn through discipline and finding a step-by-step path to your goals. It’s the simple, but not always easy task of making your dream a reality by doing it on a daily basis.
When serious Saturn overtakes your life during this hugely important initiation into adulthood, it’s important to remember that ‘This too shall pass.’ The harshness of this period can make you feel washed up, parched, disillusioned. But it can also be a time of taking stock, liberating yourself from all kinds of baggage and starting anew with a clearer sense of purpose. It’s never too late to be who you were meant to be. The Saturn Return reminds you of what is truly important and makes sure you’re on the path to claim your highest potential.
~ Rev. Tiffany White Sage Woman